Littletree got an origami set for her birthday - one of the presents that were waiting for her when we got home.
She's been having a great time making various things, starting with a giraffe. We're thinking about organising an origami workshop for our homeschool group.
Meanwhile I'm getting over my jet-lag and getting our house back in order and back into our routine. It's nice to be home.
The Essence of Life website, which I write for, has been updated - it's all shiny and new :) Since the update, all the URLs from the old articles have changed, so I updated all the links to EOL in the sidebar - if you scroll down my blog on the right side bar there's full lists of all my articles there.
They also have a new article of mine published, about Birthing without Fear. You can read it Here
And the forums are all upgraded and looking great (functioning better as well), so check it out Here
I'm finally getting settled in at home, and getting over the jet lag. It's been really nice to hang about with friends in the village, and Littletree is so happy to be home.
She's been practicing her belly dancing a lot, especially since Purple bought her a belly dancing costume for her birthday
The video is a bit dark, but you get the idea.
Last night we went to a little party at a neighbour's house (well, actually Littletree went with some friends, Purple and I just wandered down to check on her after a couple of hours), and they had a harp there, which Littletree spent ages playing on, while singing her current favourite song:
Earth my body,
Water my blood,
Air my breath and
Fire my spirit.
So now she really wants to get a harp. Not guitar or violin as previously desired. Ah well. One day when I'm rich ;)
We're finally home, safe and sound, though I'm still recovering a bit from the journey.
I couldn't sleep the night before we left, so I was awake from 3am. I woke Littletree up a bit after 5am, and carried her downstairs with all the bags (clearly not all in one go), to wait for the taxi to the airport.
I had an amazing amount of luggage... we came with one backpack weighing 23kg, and went home with three large bags totally 45kg, plus I had another 20kg carry-on! Somehow I managed to get it all onto the cart and manoeuvre it all, with Littletree, around the airport without hassle. We even found "Vegetarianism Pies" to snack on!
The flight was relatively comfortable (well, as much as long-haul flights can be). Only we landed in Sydney. I thought we were supposed to land in Brisbane, indeed, I boarded a flight to Brisbane...
This was strange. It turns out that the flight goes to Sydney and then on to Brisbane, but no one told me that. Not the travel agent who sold us the tickets, not the Thai Airways clerk who changed my flights for me, not the girl at the check-in desk, no one at the boarding gate... it was never mentioned.
I'm sure everyone else on the flight knew, but somehow no one had told me. Which meant that I was prepared for a 9 hour flight but it was really 12 hours.
The crazy thing was that we were told that everyone had to get off the plane, with all our hand luggage. Then, dragging a tired kid, and my suitcases, we had to go through security checks, including the removal of any carry-on liquids, and get all our bags x-rayed again. Then we all went right back to the same gate and got back on the same plane, in the same seats. Gah!
At least we made it to Brisbane just fine, and all our luggage arrived, mostly in one piece (the small pocket of my backpack had come open and my glasses were lost, but thankfully the airline managed to find them).
Then of course, Purple picked us up at the airport, but he was too tired to drive us home, so I drove the 2 hours, arriving home at 2am.
I slept most of yesterday, so that was a bit of a blur; today I did a whole lot of unpacking, and two loads of laundry, and Littletree got to open more birthday presents from all the friends and family in Israel and Australia. Here's the dress she got from her grandmother:
I cut our Bangkok shopping trip short - I got all essential things I *really* wanted, and all the things other people asked me to get, and a few other nice things... not everything I wanted to get, and I surely would have liked to spend more time, and buy more stuff, but Littletree was hot and bothered, and had enough of me dragging her around.
It was just so hot, Littletree was refusing to eat. Though she did have her usual favourite - noodle soup - for breakfast (note the skilful chopstick usage)
Mamarabbit called me to say they would be going swimming in the afternoon, so we skipped lunch, raced back to our guest house and packed to get to their place in time.
Though I'm a bit disappointed I didn't get to do all the things I wanted to to in Bangkok (I wanted to get a new digital camera, and have Littletree's teeth and mine cleaned at the dentist, among other things), Littletree had a fantastic time swimming and playing with the kids, so it was worth it.
And Mamarabbit's twins are sooooo cute!
Anyway, coming here early was good because it meant I had loads of time to chat about midwifery with Mamarabbit, and drool over her awesome book collection
Tomorrow morning really early we fly back to Australia...
Littletree and I took our flight to Bangkok yesterday morning - we had plenty of time, but still almost missed the flight waiting for Chrysalis-time ;) It was really sad to say good bye to her and all the family.
We arrived to Bangkok fine, and took a taxi to Mamarabbit's house. Littletree was so excited to visit them again, and the kids had a great time playing. This morning we came in to town to do some shopping - I'm buying loads of pretty things to fill up our new house.
The fun thing about Bangkok is that it's a bit like being in a small village - I can barely walk down the street without running into some friends I know. I ran into my good friends M&M and met their new baby, and staying in our guest house was one sister I met at the Thai World Rainbow Gathering about 2 years ago
The bad thing about Bangkok (especially at this time of year) is the heat. it's hot, HOT, steamy, stinky, hot, sweaty, HOT, and really really HOT. Way hotter than it was in Phuket. I think for the first time ever I actually wish I'd gotten an air conditioned room.
At least there was a rainstorm at sunset, which brought a brief respite, and a rainbow
But of course, it just got steamy again after that. Ah well, in a couple of days we'll be back home again, and winter will be starting; no doubt I'll wish for heat!
It's our last day in Phuket - Chrysalis is well recovered from her birth, Sahyan is growing and healthy, the Songkran holiday is over... So Littletree and I fly back to Bankgkok tomorrow to stay with my good friend, Mamarabbit.
We're just having a slow day around the house, enjoying the garden one last time.
The pond
All the beautiful flowers
Lotuses
The bridge
Littletree spends so much time playing in the enormous garden, she finds loads of faeries and secret little corners.
It's been wonderful staying here, and it was so great to see Frangipani and Anit and Bonne and see how their babies are growing. I miss being able to watch the babies whose birth I've attended growing up, so it's been great to see them all again.
Next week we'll be back home, after our Bangkok adventures...
So after we had the kid's party at home, Littletree went with her friends to the Infinity yacht to have a swim. All us grown-ups came later. There was a HUGE party on the boat; just coincidentally on the same day as Littletree's birthday.
There was about 35 people there for a huge feast.
There was so much good food, and we all ate heaps, amidst dozens of beautiful toasts.
We all hung out enjoying and chatting while the kids played and danced
Kesem did an amazing magic show
Here's a short video of the end:
After the magic show, we set off a big fireworks display - Littletree's biggest birthday wish. It was fantastic!
and of course the boys loved the chance to play with fireworks ;)
We stumbled home after 1am, after a boat ride back to the shore through water shimmering with phosphorescence. Littletree fell asleep in the car home, after hugging me so much and telling me it was the best birthday ever :)
Yesterday was Littletree's 6th birthday, and what an extravaganza it turned out to be! I think this might end up being two posts, since the day was so huge - two parties, kids games, cake, presents, a magic show, fireworks, toasts and wishes, a massive feast on a yacht...
My birthday present to Littletree was a princess fairy costume, and Chrysalis made her fairy wings to complete the costume.
Farjah and Marjah bought her a set of miniature doll-houses
We had a few of Littletree's friends over for a party
Farjah set up a treasure hunt for the kids
The kids had a great time running all over the enormous garden following the clues
We had a pass-the-parcel
A Pin-the-Wings-on-the-Fairy, which I didn't take a photo of, and one crazy game where the kids had to pick a chocolate out of the bottom of a bowl of jelly - using only their mouths!
I thought it looked revoting, but Chysalis joined in and loved it.
Finally we had cake - a sickening, frothy, decorated sponge cake from the Thai bakery - at Littletree's request.
The cream on top was so thick and sweet no one could eat it - not even Littletree, but it was pretty, and she loved it anyway
In the end, it was time for the kids to go, and they invited Littletree to go with them to swim at their yacht for the afternoon.
After a big clean-up and a brief rest, we all piled into the car to go to the yacht for a party... which I'll save for another post. As it is this one is waaay long and I'm not sure it will load, so I've kept the photos small.
Today is Songkran - the Thai New Year, which is celebrated by nation-wide water fight revelry that goes on for three days.
We were "lucky" enough to be stuck in Bangkok over Songkran two years ago, where the crowds are phenomenal and the people bordering on crazy. It was pretty traumatic for Littletree, who had a deep fear of water, and got hysterical if so much as a drop got splashed on her, and not to mention she doesn't like crowds, or people touching her - the essence of Songkran.
This time around, I opted to stay a few extra days here in Phuket, in the relative safety of Chrysalis' secluded garden, but Littletree was keen to go out and see what it would be like.
Not willing to brave driving to one of the populated public areas where the crowds and craziness would be going on, I walked to the end of our lane with Littletree, toting her little watergun that she bought with her pocket money last week.
At the corner of our lane we found a small group of local women and children standing with big barrels of water, splashing the cars and bikes driving past.
Littletree was quite shy of them, but they warmly invited us to join them and gave Littletree a chair to stand on in the shade. Slowly, slowly, she warmed up to them, and before long, Littletree was having a ball, throwing water everywhere, drenched as can be!
We had a great time, throwing water around and getting soaked
The process was waiting for a truck or bike to approach, grab bowl-fulls of water...
Run up and SPLASH!
Littletree had a ball!
Here's a short video I took:
Finally we strolled home, sopping wet :) Tomorrow will be Littletree's birthday; she's so excited!
It seems my blog was experiencing some technical difficulties over the last day - I think I've sorted it out now, so I hope it's all working again and I apologise if anyone was inconvenienced.
After the creepy crawly story yesterday, I'll go back to cute pics of Chrysalis' baby. He now has a name; Sahyan Jarranin - it's a Thai name, Sahyan meaning Twilight and Jarranin meaning well-natured.
Sahyan is really a well-natured bubba. He is so alert and peaceful
Here he is with Kesem
It's really been such a wonderful time here; I've felt really at home with Chrysalis, and her family have made me feel like one of the tribe. Littletree loves them all as well (especially as Farjah and Marjah brought her some new Faraway Tree stories - her favourite books at the moment).
Here we all are sharing a family dinner:
At the end of the week Littletree and I will be on our way, back to Australia...
Before you all get diabetes from the sweetness of Chrysalis' cute baby, I'll just go off onto another of my trademark creepy-crawlies tributes.
Chrysalis called me into the bathroom last night to show me this really freaky caterpillar. On closer inspection, it turned out to be not one caterpillar, but a whole mass of squirmy larvae crawling as one mass.
Gross!
The rainy season has started early here, the garden is flooding, and there's a different plague of bugs every night. We've been invaded by hoards of ants, annoying beetles that grip onto one's hair and clothes (and have a penchant for sticking in dreadlocks), weird suicidal flying ants, lots of little bitty green flies, and the ever-ubiquitous mosquitoes.
So it isn't all coconut shakes and beaches in paradise :p
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Chrysalis' baby is getting bigger and bigger every day - he's six days old today and all the family went out to take him to a Wat (Thai Buddhist temple) to see a 115-year-old monk who would hopefully give him a name.
Somehow that didn't work out, and Chrysalis has bought a few Thai baby-name books. Still no name, but there's time :)
Here's baby enjoying his bath; seems that water-born babies really love the water
And Chrysalis enjoying her new sling made by the fabulous Frangipani (she makes and sells them in a wide range of spectacular colours).
Littletree has been really helpful with the baby, Chrysalis took this video of her holding him - it's hilarious! (for those who don't manage to watch the video, Littletree was holding the baby, and it's all very cute, and then he peed on her and she threw him off her lap LOL)
Today while I stayed home to study and take care of Chrysalis, Farjah and Marjah and Brarjah took Littletree out to the Phuket Aquarium.
Littletree had gone there once when we were here last year, and loved it. She came home so excited, having learned so much about various kinds of fish, so she was really excited to go again (not to mention I was about ready for a quiet day!)
(Photos courtesy of Farjah):
Littletree and the whale:
Flower Brain Fish:
Freaky fish: 
Clown fish and anemone: 
Sea turtle:
So at least I can say Littletree is doing 'educational' things while we're here too ;)
It's been quite a whirlwind of activity around here since the birth of the baby (whose name is yet to be announced). We've all been quite busy attending to Chrysalis' post natal recovery, getting her into herbal sitz baths and helping to take care of the baby.
Littletree painted this amazing picture of the birth, which is pretty accurate, and in my totally unbiased opinion, absolutely fantastic :)
Chrysalis is recovering from the birth really well, check out her flat tummy, just one day post partum:
Yesterday a whole crowd of friends came over to meet the newborn.
They brought an enormous feast for lunch so we all sat around chatting and gorging ourselves on good food.
Yum!
Since Chrysalis's parents, Farjah and Marjah, and younger brother, Brarjah arrived, the place has been a hive of activity. It felt like we were in constant motion for two days, driving around the island, shopping, having visitors...
Chrysalis was having regular braxton-hicks contractions through it all, but she seemed like she still had at least a few days if not a week to go. But Chrysalis came and woke me up a bit before 2am this morning, saying that she thought she was in labour.
Of course, my first thought was, "yeah, maybe she's in early labour, but the best bet is to go get some rest while there's still some time". I told Chrysalis as much and she went to wake up Marjah.
I tried to nap for a bit, but within a few minutes I could hear Chrysalis groaning through a contraction, and realised that it was indeed the real thing!
She had pretty much jumped right into a fast flowing active labour, with contractions coming three minutes apart and rapidly increasing. She instinctively got herself into an open-knee chest position, on the tiles in the bathroom doorway
After a little while on the floor, Marjah and I got her into the bed, I was keeping busy checking the fetal heart rate, setting up the birth kit and helping Farjah to fill up the birth pool while Marjah was supporting Chrysalis.
After maybe an hour, the contractions were getting under two minutes apart and lasting around 80 seconds, so we got Chrysalis to turn around to check the baby's heart. All was going fine, and she was coping really well. When Farjah said the birth pool was full, Chrysalis jumped up and ran to it... instant relief.
Well, just for a moment. Though getting into the pool helped Chrysalis to relax, the contractions were soon coming hard and fast again, and she started sounding pushy.
(note the swanky birth pool a friend lent to Chrysalis!
Chrysalis was in transition already, and needed our full attention. within about half an hour, she said she could feel the baby's head coming down, and lo! A healthy little boy was born :) at 4:06am, on the 3rd of April.
He came out so fast, and was swimming under the water for a few moments before Chrysalis brought him up. He was breathing on his own and absolutely fine and healthy - after just over two hours of labour!
Littletree had woken up and sat quietly to watch, and Kesem had arrived with a friend just in the nick of time to see the birth.
Chrysalis got out of the pool to birth the placenta, and we got her into bed to rest and clean up.
Chrysalis got to eat some mashed potatoes while Marjah held her new grandson. Littletree and Kesem fell asleep while I assessed Chrysalis for tears and blood loss, checked her blood pressure and made sure her womb was contracting.
Chrysalis' blood pressure was getting on the low side, and she'd lost a bit of blood, so we made her an energising high-protien smoothie, which really helped to pick her up again
Then we spent the rest of the day chilling, cleaning up, and revelling in the gorgeousness of the new baby boy
Chrysalis is getting closer and closer to her birthing, but it still looks like she has a ways to go. My money is on 6th of April, at 2:47am ;)
We've been encouraging her to do some pelvic rocking exercises, and prenatal yoga, as well as sitting on the birth ball that a friend lent her.
I really love doing midwifery care when I'm living with the woman, or at least very nearby. I feel a lot more confident to know what's going on with her baby and body, having the chance to truly tune in and connect. We can check her blood pressure regularly if there's an indication for it, listen to the baby's heartbeat every day, and feel the baby's position.
It's great for Chrysalis to be able to listen to her baby's heart, and we're even training up the next generation into natural midwifery care :)
Meanwhile, Bonne and Pan left yesterday, back to Cambodia. We'll miss them loads! But on the plus side, Chrysalis' parents and younger brother arrived.
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