Wednesday, 17 October 2007

A Song Written by Purple

Purple wrote this amazing song when we were at the rainbow;

When I take her to the park to play
I want to hold her hand
And not let her run away
Or fill her mouth with sand

She drives her little scooter
Nearly smashes into the wall
She goes up the highest slide
I almost scream – she’s going to fall

And I love her…

So I let her run free
Be who she wants to be
She can learn from her own mistakes
Live in every breath she takes
She’ll have time for her own tears
She has no use for my old fears

When I see a wild flower
Do I chop its head; put it in a vase;
Watch it whither for three days
And never let it grow?
How can I do it to my child?
Why should I block her flow?

I show her rocks and birds and trees
I help her catch and throw a ball
I’d teach her everything there is
But all she wants is a Barbie doll

I want to tell her it is bad
A danger to her self esteem
I want to show her how I’m sad
That she takes part in such a dream

And I love her…

So I let her buy three
Be who she wants to be
She can learn from her own mistakes
Live in every breath she takes
She’s a person whose opinions count
She has to know I have no doubt

When I see a wild flower
Do I chop its head; put it in a vase;
Watch it whither for three days
And never let it grow?
How can I do it to my child?
Why should I block her flow?

She’s taking out her water paints
Her drawings can be neat and fine
But then she pours them on my shoes
Clearly she has crossed the line

Anger flashes through my eyes
‘I’ll show you what, you little brat!
There’s consequence to what you’ve done
I’ll teach you that you can’t do that!’

And I love her…

So I hug her to me
She’s sorry. I can see.
She can learn from her own mistakes
Live in every breath she takes
My shoes – they are already lost
But she knows I love her at any cost

When I see a wild flower
Do I chop its head; put it in a vase;
Watch it whither for three days
And never let it grow?
How can I do it to my child?
Why should I block her flow?


I really love this song, it totally expresses our parenting philosophy, how we are raising Littletree with unconditional respect...

Invisible Posters and Thread Killers... UNITE

MDC closed down my beloved thread; Invisible Posters ... and Thread Killers... Welcome oh the pain!!!

Anyway, it got sorted in the end and we have a new thread...
And Littletree sang a song about birds to cheer me up

Monday, 15 October 2007

Elimination Communication

My latest Natural Parenting article was published on Essence Of Life.
Its about Elimination Communication, which is a way of having babies without diapers and paying attention to their signals to know when they need to go. In general it means having "toilet-trained" kids at around one year old.
Again, I'm not thrilled about the editor's cut, but what to do? they pay me anyways ;)

Sunday, 14 October 2007

Littletree Magic



Here is Littletree doing a magic trick. I have no idea how she does it!


I asked her, but she said, "a magician never reveals her tricks"


So I figured I'd try out the new Blogger Video feature... See how it compares to YouTube...



*Update*

I couldn't make it work on Blogger, so I did it on YouTube. even that took me a lot of effort. I think our internet connection isn't up to it :(

Saturday, 13 October 2007

Rainbow Dayze

Our trip to the Australian National Rainbow Gathering started with packing. A LOT of packing
Since our new landlord said he would get some rennovations done on the cottage while we're away, we needed to pack everything up; not just what we were taking, but also to box all the rest of the stuff and get it out of the way.
Of course this meant that I decided to bring way more stuff than we needed, since we packed it anyway, and it seemed easier just to chuck it all in the car than decide what to take and what to leave.
We were just about ready to go when Littletree decided she had to eat some spaghetti. Of course, That was a fun clean-up, and just moments later I went to get the feather sleeping bag that was sunning outside when it snagged on a stick and ripped open, feathers EVERYWHERE.
No worries, I picked up the spaghetti and sewed up the sleeping bag, and without too much stress and very little fighting, we got into the car. One last moment of excitement; a bit old koala came down to the trees by the car to say goodbye.
The drive was long, and we stopped often so Littletree could stretch her legs. Arriving out to the site, we found that the exact site had been moved. Turns out the land we were on was the same land the rainbow family had been invited to gather on by the local Bundjalung Aboriginal elders back in 1996. Only then the rainbow family had turned the site down; we weren't ready for it.

Somehow, by chance, we ended up gathering there, and the locals were really happy about it. The only problem was that the local cattle farming co-op was mustering their herds right thought the gathering site then, so they moved us a couple of Kms upstream. No problem.

When we arrived, there was just a handful of people, 20 or so, and many of them seemed a bit bitter about having moved from the "better" site. But we grinned, and saw the beauty of the new spot, and put our tipi up in a choice location.
I thought the gathering was amazing; the site was really beautiful, with a crystal clear, fast-flowing, sweet river - Washpool Creek. It was a little chilly in the water for some, but I found it very refreshing and went swimming every day.

We had hot sunny days and fresh starry nights. It only rained seriously one time, and that was just one night of rain, though it was raining when the seed camp got started and it rained a little right at the end of the clean-up. We were truly blessed.
I did a bit of focalising in the kitchen; here's one of the yummy dishes we made:

The gathering was smaller than we expected; just under 200 at full moon. It seemed a lot of the local 'core' rainbow crew didn't come, but that was nice too. There were lots of workshops; singing, dance, meditation, massage, juggling, fairy-wing-making, herb and bush tucker walks, healing, capoeira, sisters' circles, mens' circles, hunting, weaving, music, dreamspell, knot-tying, rocket-stove building, cooking, and more.
Purple built an amazing oven and a sister called Odd and I used cow shit to sculpt a big pregnant woman around it, so it looks like the door of the oven was her yoni, from which she birthed lots of yummy sour-dough breads, pizza and cakes. We called it The Bun In The Oven Bakery!

I was so impressed with Purple's effort in making it; he'd never built an oven before, and he didn't announce in the circle that he was planning to make it, and didn't ask for people to help him. He just snuck off when no one was looking and did it. I think Odd and someone else helped him a bit in the end, but still, it was a great effort. So now I'm gonna get him to build me one at home too :)
I did some Capoeira workshops for beginners and a couple of goo capoeiristas came, but I've come to realise its just not a really huge sport in Australia. Oh Well.
Here's me playing with a girl who's name I can't remember:

Purple gave a great Intuitive Massage workshop, and some other workshops too. We also talked a lot about Unschooling, and a couple of people even came up to me to say they'd seen my blog and they were inspired to start unschooling!

The best part of the gathering was the people; there were loads of kids which was fantastic, and a reasonably functioning kids' kitchen, with a self-service breakfast and a prepared kids' lunch every day. We hardly saw Littletree at all, she was so often running around with some other kids or grown-ups.

It was so great to see all the rainbow kids running around together, hanging down by the creek and playing in the forest. Some people brought canoes for the kids to paddle in and some people did workshops for the kids and storytelling. Some of the men took the boys off on a bushwalk, and taught them how to make spears and eel traps for hunting.

Nicole did a workshop with the kids to make fairy wings that was a real hit.
Anyway, it was a great gathering. Littletree managed to catch the flu towards the end, so of course I caught it from her, and then Purple did too. But it wasn't so bad and we got lots of healing from many loving people. I'll do another post to share some more pics, but that's about all I can write for now!

Friday, 12 October 2007

Cambodia

I had a new article published on Essence of Life
Its a spiritual travel story about when I was in Cambodia in 2000 as part of my hitchhike from Indonesia to India.
Anyway, I think it's nice, you can read it if you like

I know, I know, I was going to write a nice long post about the rainbow gathering... I'm getting to it, dont rush me! I only just now finally emptied my inbox, so give me a break! Well, I haven't been completely idle; I uploaded all our photos and got them online at flickr
Enjoy!

Wednesday, 10 October 2007

Home Again

Well, that's it. We packed up and left the rainbow gathering.

A little earlier than I'd expected, but the gathering was pretty much over. Only a dozen people were still there, most of whom were leaving in the next day or two. Everything was pretty much packed up, only the main kitchen and the straggler's personal camps remained, and the main kitchen was getting packed down today.

The great news is that we ended with a zero balance in the magic hat :) no left over money to bicker over.

The gathering itself was amazing, as usual.

Powerful ceremony with the local Aboriginal Bundjalung tribe, lots of kids, shining happy people, beautiful site, crystal clear river, great weather (it only rained seriously one night), yummy food every night, so many lovely friends, old and new...

Anyway, we've had a long day; packing up the tipi and everything, then the long drive home, and unpacking (well, some of the unpacking). So I'll save the long and detailed rave for tomorrow. not to mention all the photos ;)

Friday, 5 October 2007

The Story of the Infinite Unicorns

We are still at the rainbow gathering... I've just come to town to do some shopping...
Anyway, I just wanted to share a story that Littletree told me; she made it up as she went along, and the whole story took about an hour, full of details. Well, I'll write a synopsis:
The Story of the Infinite Unicorns
Once Upon a Time
there was a little girl called Demelza. She was down by the river with her mama
when a flying unicorn with beautiful wings came and offered to give her a ride on its back. Then another unicorn came for Demelza's mama to ride on. Then an infinite number of Unicorns came so that everyone in Demelza's infinite family would have a unicorn to ride on.

The flew up into the sky, very very far, until they reached the top of a mountain that was so hight it reached up into the clouds. At the top of the mountain was a huge cave that the unicorns lived in, and the inside of the cave was covered with infinite rainbow coloured crystals that lit the way.

Inside there were infinite clouds that all the unicorns and Demelza's family could lie on and rest. Then they heard a big noise, and saw that it was a big big butterfly, with rainbow coloured wings (but they weren't scary). The Butterfly was so big it was the size of the whole mountain, and there was an infinite number of Butterflies.

They all ate a huge feast of lots of yummy foods, especially celery. Then the Unicorns flew Demelza and her family home again.
I just thought it was such a wonderful story. I wish I'd had a tape recorder to record her telling the whole tale.